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08-10-2014 05:34 PM
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08-10-2014 09:03 PM
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08-10-2014 09:42 PM
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With regard to financial support, has he set up direct debits for your family or would you be able to get some of his salary paid into your own account?
Many utility companies are actually open to flexibility around payments etc, but you need to contact them so you can keep them in the loop.
Does anyone else have ideas around navigating income flow in situations like this?
Main breadwinner out of home?
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09-10-2014 09:51 PM
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09-10-2014 09:58 PM
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And call the utility companies and ask for extensions of bill payment dates..
Perhaps others have some ideas to help Mrs C?
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09-10-2014 10:52 PM
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10-10-2014 05:33 PM
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This is in fact financial abuse or something similar as if you don't have access then how the heck can you pay bills, manage budgets etc..I would strongly recommend you call his psychologist as what is the backup plan if he became unavailable due to an accident or I'll health?
Do you not gave a joint account? You can get a second ATM card for his account if setting up new account way too tricky with direct debits etc. He will have to sign a form for the bank but it doesn't make sense fo you not to have access. Or web banking.
He is not being reasonable as such. Perhaps you prefer to let him manage finances, fair enough but in situations like this you need to either get him to transfer funds across to yr account or, sit together and pay bills online together.
In the meantime have you contacted any of the businesses you may need extensions of bill due dates like utilities, insurance, car rego, rates etc?
Good luck..
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10-10-2014 06:28 PM
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10-10-2014 09:06 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear what you're going through. It seems like such an imppossible situation to be in. No wonder you are stressed. When I have find myself in such extreme situations I keep reminding myself of the old adage, 'The prelude to a miracle is an impossible situation.' Sometimes, for things to take a turn for the better, the situation has to hit absolute rock bottom which is not a good thing to experience but often after this happens, things suddenly change for the better. Hold on to that thought if you can. Hoping and praying you get your miracle very soon.
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10-10-2014 10:24 PM
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