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07-04-2015 12:47 PM
07-04-2015 12:47 PM
Lost hope
These other times but now even being in meds it's all piled up on top of me and this time the only lesson I can take from everything is that I am not good enough, no matter how hard I work or doin the right thing Im still not good enough. I don't know who to trust talking to of fear of being judged or told where I've gone wrong and how to do it better so I don't make the same mistakes. I think I am too vulnerable. Drawn to people and then they step on me like a mat. I just don't have it in me to think positive, hope or believe there will be someone out there who won't run from me.
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07-04-2015 02:00 PM
07-04-2015 02:00 PM
Re: Lost hope
We are a welcoming bunch of people and we are certainly not here to judge each other!
@Aonoran has written about this recently..about how some folks expect people to change, or are busy proffering advice and then, if you don't go along with it..well then you are rejected..
Do not much reciprocal friendship going on when people expect us to change and we don't.
Me, I call it being assertive..
You are good enough.
We won't run away..
We are all in this together so welcome aboard!!
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07-04-2015 07:24 PM
07-04-2015 07:24 PM
Re: Lost hope
Hello Eh87
drink in the warmth shared here, and like chicken noodle soup you will soon be feeling like your legs aren't so wobbly anymore.
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08-04-2015 06:12 PM
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08-04-2015 07:11 PM
08-04-2015 07:11 PM
Re: Lost hope
Those that matter don't mind and those who mind don't matter..
Gives me a bit of perspective because friends love each other and bring out the best in each other and accept each other wholeheartedly.
That is not to say my friends don't challenge me at times..but it with my permission..and I ask for help..there's a big difference compared to someone telling me what I should be doing...
I am think I was reading a different post that @peace and @Crazy_Bug_Lady were writing about how sometimes, some types of diagnoses means we can react very differently to what people say to us..that we may take words very very personally..so language is very important but intent is pretty important too. Friendship is hopefully an equality of caring, sharing and loving..so when it isn't appearing that way, it is OK to have a conversation about how you feel..and if it is not OK..silence can help too..you will find plenty of friendly non j dging folks right here..see posts from @Former-Member and @peace and @ karma! Welcome aboard the forum 🙂